Had to leave him because he has no ambition

    Dear Pastor, I am a 25-year-old woman. I am living abroad. I was in a relationship with a man for nine years. I loved him dearly, but the relationship became toxic. When we first got together, I was just out of high school. We went through a lot... ...

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    Four years together but still no ring

    Dear Pastor, I am in my mid-30s. I continue to read your column every week. I am not married, but I have been living with a man for the past four years. I have a child, but the man is not the father. He treats her very well and nobody would... ...

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    My dad is too strict about who I should date

    Dear Pastor, I am 17 years old and living with my father and stepmother. My father is a very strict man, but he is a loving father. I am doing well in school. I want to be a medical doctor. There is a guy in the neighbourhood who loves me, but he... ...

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    Wife cheated on me with a younger man

    Dear Pastor, My wife and I were married for seven years, but we were friends before that. We had a good relationship for approximate five years. After that, my wife became very disrespectful to me, and she would go out whenever she felt like it... ...

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    Finding it hard to make ends meet

    Dear Pastor, I am 18 years old and I am living with my boyfriend in a nice area. I am not working but he works as a security guard. Four months ago, I gave birth to my second child, so the pressure is on him. My father is a fisherman. We are... ...

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    My ex is better in bed than my husband

    Dear Pastor, I have been a Christian for the past eight years; I am 28. From I was 16, I was involved with a man, but he had his woman. That did not bother me because he gave me the best care that any girl would want. I knew his other woman. When... ...

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    Thinking about marrying an ex-prostitute

    Dear Pastor, I am a 30-year-old man and my girlfriend is 28. We are living together. When she was 23 years old, she got married to a man who came to Jamaica as a tourist. The man took away the marriage certificate. He told her that he would file... ...

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    I learnt the hard way about trusting men

    Dear Pastor, In 1998, I met a man who told me that he loved me and wanted us to be friends. He spoke as if he were genuine. At the time, I was living with my brother and his wife. My brother was sending me to take some subjects at a school in the... ...

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    Mother-in-law doesn’t want me around

    Dear Pastor I am 23 years old and pregnant. The man who got me pregnant is in a very good job. He rented a house and his mother is also living there. She takes care of everything. She is in her 50s. After he got me pregnant, he took me to his... ...

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    My grandmother has been my rock

    Dear Pastor, I am 20 years old and when I was 16, I met a man who told me that he loved me. I told him that I was not interested in a man. I wanted to finish school and I did not want to concentrate on any relationship at that time. I was living... ...

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    Wife, babyfather’s sister hide ‘jacket’

    Dear Pastor, This is the first time I am writing to you and I hope you can help me. I am 34 years old and I have three children. You may not remember me, but you officiated at the wedding of my husband and I. I trust you, so there are things that... ...

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    Married couple keeping it real from teen days

    Dear Pastor, I have been reading your column from I was a teenager, and to this day, I enjoy doing so. My husband and I sometimes read it to each other. This man and I were childhood sweethearts. We knew each other from we were in high school.... ...

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    Brother-in-law won’t help me unless I sleep with him

    Dear Pastor, I am 25 and I have one child, but the father is in prison. He used to take very good care of me. He paid my rent and I had money every week to go to the supermarket; but since he got himself into trouble, I have fallen on hard times... ...

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    My man got his co-worker pregnant

    Dear Pastor, I am 24 and I have been living with a man for three and half years. When we started out, he promised to marry me, but I had to get pregnant first. After one year, I had a child and we discussed marriage again. He said we shouldn't... ...

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    Jimmy Cliff was a Jamaican icon

    Dear Pastor, When God said He created evil in Isaiah 45:7, it means anything opposite to the perfect will of God so as to give man a chance to make a choice between good and bad. It's part of a declaration of God's sovereignty, but the word 'evil... ...

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    Husband sleeping with my neighbour

    Dear Pastor, I am a frequent reader of your column. I have a situation - I found out my husband was sleeping with my neighbour who lives in the same apartment building as we do. I found out in March when she came to me and said that my husband... ...

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    Husband only wants to do things his way

    Dear Pastor, I am 22 years old and my husband is 24. We don't always see eye to eye. He believes that because he is the man, and he is older, I should always listen to what he says. I agree that I should follow his leadership, but many times the... ...

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    Deadbeat husband wants to move back in

    Dear Pastor, My husband and I got married in 2011 and had our first child, a daughter, after six years of waiting. Three years later, our son was born, and because things were hard on us financially, I helped my husband to go overseas so he could... ...

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    My secret past with a married man won’t stop my political dreams

    Dear Pastor, I am a woman in my early 20s and I am living at home with my parents and two brothers. From I was a child, I hated this place and I was always saying that as soon as I get older, probably when I turned 18, I would fall in love, and a... ...

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    Brother-in-law tried to hold me down

    Dear Pastor, I have just finished reading your column, and I decided to write to you. I was born in Jamaica, but I do not live there. I do not have children, and I am single by choice. I am in a good job, but I have had disappointments in life.... ...

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