Security guard has me hooked

    Dear Pastor, I hope this letter finds you in good health. I am 30 years old. I have been in a relationship for 12 years with my son's father. I have tried my best to be faithful to him. He is really helpful in every way. He works and helps me with... ...

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    Husband says I am not ‘super beautiful’ any more

    Dear Pastor, I am a 47-year-old woman and my husband is 40. I have always loved younger men, so when we met and he told me his age, I told him that his age didn't matter to me. After going out for one year, we got married. I was not interested in... ...

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    Want to run away and visit my boyfriend

    Dear Pastor, I am 18 years old and I am attending university. I am in my first year, but I am having problems. I did not want to attend this university, but I was forced to do so because of my father. This university is where he attended and... ...

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    Older lover can’t keep up in bed

    Dear Pastor, I have been reading your column from I was a young girl. I am now 40. I was married, but my husband died, so I am a widow. My husband did not own a house, so I was homeless when he passed. I was very lucky to find a man who is 70. I... ...

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    Can’t handle my young girlfriend

    Dear Pastor, I am in my late 30s. I got married when I was 23 years old. My marriage has not worked. Both of us accused each other of infidelity. I can only say that I am not innocent of the charge. But my ex-wife has never admitted that she... ...

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    Convinced my wife has tied me

    Dear Pastor, I am a 41-year-old man. I wrote to you a couple of years ago and told you about my problem. You told me to call a counsellor and make an arrangement for my wife and I to see him. I was willing to go to see him, but my wife was not. A... ...

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    Boyfriend refused when I offered sex

    Dear Pastor, I am 20 and so is my boyfriend. I love him very much. He is my third boyfriend. My first boyfriend is now living in America. His parents were living there while he was living in Jamaica with his grandmother, but they filed for him... ...

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    Husband doesn’t trust me because of his babymother

    Dear Pastor, My husband and I have been married for three years, but he has never trusted me. I have asked him many times why he married me if he did not trust me. He said only foolish men put their trust in women. I found out from him that he... ...

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    Want to tell my son about his real dad

    Dear Pastor, I am having a problem. I am 26 and I have one child, but this child is not for my husband. I had him by another man when I was 23 years old. This other guy and I went to college together and we were very close. He used to assist me... ...

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    Boyfriend loves to have sex in the open

    Dear Pastor, I am a 19-year-old woman and I had an experience that I would like to relate to you. I am seeing a man who is 24 years old and he did something that I do not think is normal. I have had boyfriends, but none of them encouraged me to... ...

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    Son caught us having sex

    Dear Pastor, I am 26 years old and the mother of a three-year-old son. He has his own room, which is next to our room. We often lock the door that separates his room from ours. But occasionally we forget. One evening, we put him to bed and his... ...

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    Afraid to get married because of past heartbreak

    Dear Pastor, I am writing to you because I see you as a father to those of us who do not know our own biological fathers. I am 21 and I had a man who disappointed me so much that it is taking me a long time to forgive him and to trust another man... ...

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    Same age as my boyfriend’s daughter

    Dear Pastor, I am just 20 years old. I am living with my boyfriend at his grandmother's house. I am from rural Jamaica. I came to Kingston and was living with relatives, but I did not like their lifestyle. They considered me stupid and they... ...

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    I can hear my brother and his girl having sex

    Dear Pastor, I am a 25-year-old man and I have a brother who is 27. He has a girlfriend and sometimes she comes to the house and sleeps with him. He has his own room and I have mine, but I can hear them at nights making love. Whenever I hear them... ...

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    God has helped me get over being raped

    Dear Pastor, I wrote to you sometime in 2019 about being raped at age eight, and I was telling you how hurt I felt and how it made me hate my mom. But I got baptised and learnt to love her. I did not receive any counselling at the time and I now... ...

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    Fiancé is being stubborn about having a big wedding

    Dear Pastor, I am writing to you for your help. I am living with my babyfather. We are not married, and it doesn't seem as if he intends to marry me. We have been living together for four years. Whenever I go to the country with him, my parents... ...

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    My wife is no longer interested in sex

    Dear Pastor, I am a 27-year-old married Christian. My wife and I have two children. My wife is a businesswoman. She went to university and has a degree in business. We have been married for five years. We are able to pay our rent without any... ...

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    Dad stole my girlfriend

    Dear Pastor, This is the third time I am writing to you. It seems as if you are ignoring my letter but I told myself I will write to you again. I am a man in my 40s. I am divorced. I went to America and got married over there. I got into trouble... ...

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    I am pregnant for one of two cousins

    Dear Pastor, I am writing to you for the first time. I read your column often. I am 20 and I am pregnant. I was having regular sex with two guys. I am not sure which of them got me pregnant, because neither wanted to use the condom. I was... ...

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    Boyfriend wants to wed because he took my virginity

    Dear Pastor, I am 18 years old and from the time I turned 16, my mother has been warning me not to bring any 'belly' to the house. My mother knew that I had one of my schoolmates as my boyfriend. He was only six months older than me, but she was... ...

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