Caught my teenage cousin with my man

    Dear Pastor, I am writing to you with tears in my eyes. I never thought that I would have to write to you. I am living with a man who was introduced to me by my aunt. She told me that he was a good man who was looking for someone to take care of... ...

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    Girl tricked me into thinking she was pregnant

    Dear Pastor, I hope you can give me some advice. I fell in love with a young lady two years ago and we were getting along very well. One day she told me that she was pregnant, but she did not want to keep the child. She was 20 and I was 40. She... ...

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    Son-in-law keeping my daughter from church

    Dear Pastor, Greeting to you, I am an 80-year-old woman who still reads your column occasionally. My daughter lives with me and she has two children. They always buy THE STAR and everybody reads your column. Sometimes I have a good laugh at the... ...

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    My boyfriend claims he is always broke

    Dear Pastor, Greetings to you in Jesus' name. I am 23 years old and I am having a problem. I do not have children, but I have a boyfriend who is 33 years old. He says that he wants to settle down with me. But I don't think that I can settle down... ...

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    Babyfather says marriage is a scam

    Dear Pastor, I am a 30-year-old woman and I have two children. They belong to one man who is 35. We have been living together, but this man has not decided to marry me. He takes care of his children very well, but he says he does not believe in... ...

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    Mom is giving my stepdad ‘bun’

    Dear Pastor, I am 15 and I live with my mother and stepfather. I am doing well in school, but I am not happy with the way I see my mother treating my stepfather. He is a hard-working man and he treats us very well. I do not know my real father.... ...

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    Stranger says my son is her baby daddy

    Dear Pastor I am the mother of three boys and two girls. All my children are grown. My husband and I are in our senior years. Only two of our children are living in Jamaica. One of my sons had many girlfriends. Some of my friends say that he is... ...

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    I regret marrying so young

    Dear Pastor, I am having a problem and I believe that you can help me. I am a Christian. I got married when I was 21 and my husband was 22. We used to attend a very strict church. My father was one of the elders. My brothers left the church... ...

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    Had to leave him because he has no ambition

    Dear Pastor, I am a 25-year-old woman. I am living abroad. I was in a relationship with a man for nine years. I loved him dearly, but the relationship became toxic. When we first got together, I was just out of high school. We went through a lot... ...

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    Four years together but still no ring

    Dear Pastor, I am in my mid-30s. I continue to read your column every week. I am not married, but I have been living with a man for the past four years. I have a child, but the man is not the father. He treats her very well and nobody would... ...

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    My dad is too strict about who I should date

    Dear Pastor, I am 17 years old and living with my father and stepmother. My father is a very strict man, but he is a loving father. I am doing well in school. I want to be a medical doctor. There is a guy in the neighbourhood who loves me, but he... ...

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    Wife cheated on me with a younger man

    Dear Pastor, My wife and I were married for seven years, but we were friends before that. We had a good relationship for approximate five years. After that, my wife became very disrespectful to me, and she would go out whenever she felt like it... ...

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    Finding it hard to make ends meet

    Dear Pastor, I am 18 years old and I am living with my boyfriend in a nice area. I am not working but he works as a security guard. Four months ago, I gave birth to my second child, so the pressure is on him. My father is a fisherman. We are... ...

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    My ex is better in bed than my husband

    Dear Pastor, I have been a Christian for the past eight years; I am 28. From I was 16, I was involved with a man, but he had his woman. That did not bother me because he gave me the best care that any girl would want. I knew his other woman. When... ...

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    Thinking about marrying an ex-prostitute

    Dear Pastor, I am a 30-year-old man and my girlfriend is 28. We are living together. When she was 23 years old, she got married to a man who came to Jamaica as a tourist. The man took away the marriage certificate. He told her that he would file... ...

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    I learnt the hard way about trusting men

    Dear Pastor, In 1998, I met a man who told me that he loved me and wanted us to be friends. He spoke as if he were genuine. At the time, I was living with my brother and his wife. My brother was sending me to take some subjects at a school in the... ...

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    Mother-in-law doesn’t want me around

    Dear Pastor I am 23 years old and pregnant. The man who got me pregnant is in a very good job. He rented a house and his mother is also living there. She takes care of everything. She is in her 50s. After he got me pregnant, he took me to his... ...

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    My grandmother has been my rock

    Dear Pastor, I am 20 years old and when I was 16, I met a man who told me that he loved me. I told him that I was not interested in a man. I wanted to finish school and I did not want to concentrate on any relationship at that time. I was living... ...

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    Wife, babyfather’s sister hide ‘jacket’

    Dear Pastor, This is the first time I am writing to you and I hope you can help me. I am 34 years old and I have three children. You may not remember me, but you officiated at the wedding of my husband and I. I trust you, so there are things that... ...

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    Married couple keeping it real from teen days

    Dear Pastor, I have been reading your column from I was a teenager, and to this day, I enjoy doing so. My husband and I sometimes read it to each other. This man and I were childhood sweethearts. We knew each other from we were in high school.... ...

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