Church members think I killed my fiancé’s wife

    Dear Pastor, I am having a problem and I hope you can help me. I am 31 years old and I am planning to get married very soon. My fiance was married twice before. He divorced his first wife and his second wife died. My mother told me that I shouldn'... ...

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    My husband has a niece from hell

    Dear Pastor, I am not doing very well, but I am not physically ill. My mind is not at ease due to some problems that I am facing. I am living with my husband, and one of his nieces is living here. This girl wants to ruin my life. Her mother... ...

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    Older boyfriend doesn’t want me to go abroad

    Dear Pastor, I greet you in the name of the Lord. I have a problem that I would like to mention to you. I am a 19-year-old girl and I have a boyfriend. He is everything to me. I know that people who know him think that I am with him because he... ...

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    Caught a man wearing my underwear

    Dear Pastor, I am having a problem that I consider to be serious. I am living with my girlfriend in Kingston but I have a brother who lives in St James. His house was damaged, so every week I am down there assisting him to rebuild it. He has two... ...

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    I can’t wait to have his baby

    Dear Pastor, I am 21 years old and recently I got married. From I was a little girl I wanted to get married. I had many boyfriends, but most of them were just social friends. But when I turned 19, I started going out with a very respectable man.... ...

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    Don’t fear the prostate exam

    Dear Pastor, I am a 65-year-old married man and, in recent times, I have been facing some personal challenges. I urinate frequently and it is embarrassing. I can't travel any long distance without stopping to urinate. Recently, I had to go on a... ...

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    Girlfriends say my tool is too small

    Dear Pastor, I am 28 and I have two girlfriends. One is 20 and the other is 18. I have sex with them, but they have a major complaint - I am too small. I know that I am not too small and I have wondered how come they are complaining. I know I fit... ...

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    My babymother is too miserable

    Dear Pastor, I am writing to you because I am faced with a problem. I am 37 years old and I have fathered three children. They are all doing well. One of them will be leaving me to join her mother in America. The mother of the other two lives in... ...

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    Stepbrother has his eyes on me

    Dear Pastor, I am a 24-year-old girl, and I am living with my father. Recently, he married a woman who is much older than he is. My father and I have lived at his home since I was a child. One day my mother took me to my grandmother and told her... ...

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    Boyfriend wants a side chick because I’m a virgin

    Dear Pastor, I am 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We have been friends for the past six months, and he is constantly asking me to have sex with him. I keep telling him that I am afraid to have sex because I do not want to get pregnant. He... ...

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    My boyfriend always gambles away his money

    Dear Pastor, I am a regular reader of your section in THE STAR newspaper. I was travelling in a plane and the passenger before me was reading the publication. I observed that she was tickled when reading your column, so I asked her to allow me to... ...

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    Leaving my worthless spouse for good

    Dear Pastor, I have been in a relationship with this man for nine and a half years, and I have finally decided to walk away after years of trying. I am independent, I own my own home, and I have a stable job. In 2018, I purchased a 2002 seven-... ...

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    We have secrets for our naughty brother

    Dear Pastor, I am 17 years old and I am living at home with my parents, my two sisters and a brother. My sisters are older than I. We all share the same room but we have different beds. My brother has his own room and he is working. My eldest... ...

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    I have found Mr Right

    Dear Pastor, My husband and I have been married for five years. We try to do everything together. He works with the government and I work in the private sector. My husband gets home before me, so he cooks most evenings. But he does not eat until... ...

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    My wife does not like my niece

    Dear Pastor, I am 40 and my wife is 29. My niece lost her mother and she does not know her father, so I took her to live with us. Right now, she is a great help to me. This girl has not done anything to my wife, but from the time she came to live... ...

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    Pastor said relatives working obeah on me

    Dear Pastor, Happy New Year to you. Do you think that everything a pastor testifies over someone's life during a fasting service is literally true? I attended a church fasting. I am a young person. I am the first one in my family to achieve... ...

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    I can’t stand my meddling mother-in-law

    Dear Pastor, My wife and I are recently married, and we are having problems. My wife is 24 years old, and I am 23. We are renting from my wife's parents. There is a two-bedroom on the main house that my wife's parents built, and they rented it to... ...

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    My wife cheated with my own brother

    Dear Pastor, This is the second time I am writing to you. I don't know if you received my first letter, but things are getting worse between my wife and me. I find myself getting sick, and friends have told me that it is happening because I am... ...

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    Baby for a house - My partner promises to buy me a place if I get pregnant

    Dear Pastor, This is the first time I am writing to you, and I hope you can help me. I have one child by a man, but I do not love him. However, I love my child. When I got pregnant and told the man, he said I should get rid of it, but I refused.... ...

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    My pastor is a hypocrite - Church sent my dad to the backbench because I got pregnant

    Dear Pastor, I am 24 years old. I got married when I was 20 because I became pregnant, and my parents said I should get married so that by the time the baby was born, people would not know I was pregnant before marriage. My parents took it upon... ...

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