Pastor, you save me from a ‘jacket’

    Dear Pastor, I am now 40 years old. Several years ago, my girlfriend and I visited you because we were planning to get married. During that meeting, she told you she was pregnant. You asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, and I said I... ...

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    I want to rekindle with my first flame

    Dear Pastor, When I was a young boy, my minister encouraged me to join the junior choir. I didn't believe I could sing, so I was hesitant. When I told my parents what the minister had suggested, they said I would need to be dressed in white all the.. ...

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    My friend’s dad has a crush on me

    Dear Pastor, I am a 16-year-old girl and the father of my friend is always telling me to come by his shop because he has something good to give to me. I told him that I do not need anything from him but he still sends messages to me with his... ...

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    He won’t take no for an answer

    Dear Pastor, I am a 23-year-old woman and I am living with my boyfriend, but I know a guy who is in my age group who loves me. He is always calling me, and telling me that I am on his mind and he wants us to get together. He knows I have my... ...

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    Short man desperate for a good wife

    Dear Pastor, I am a young guy. I was looking around for a wife but everyone I met had their boyfriends before. My sister introduced me to one of her friends and we started to date, but the first thing she wanted from me was money to purchase a car... ...

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    They say my womb is cursed

    Dear Pastor, I am 38 years old and I am living with a man. We do not have children so his relatives have been cursing me and encouraging him to leave me. They told him that a curse is on me and that is why he cannot get me pregnant. Even a so-... ...

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    Former prostitute looking for a husband

    Dear Pastor, This is the first time I am writing to you and I want to relate my situation to you. I met a man, but he knows little about my background. He was my regular client. I was born in rural Jamaica. My parents did not show me much love, so... ...

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    Woman lied that I got her pregnant

    Dear Pastor, I have been a regular listener to your show. My wife and I do not go to bed until you sign off. You are never wrong for my wife, but sometimes I think you should ease up on the men, especially those who allow women to fool them. You... ...

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    Afraid to tell my boyfriend about my past sex life

    Dear Pastor, When I was 17, a group of us girls went out with some of our guy friends after they invited us out. They were all from the middle class. In the past, we had fun together. My parents knew some of them. All my parents did was to... ...

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    My boyfriend can’t wait for us to have sex

    Dear Pastor, I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17 years old. I went to a Bible camp where we were divided into groups and had a discussion. The counsellor told us to talk freely. I was the shyest among the group, but when the other girls... ...

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    Christian husband beats me for sex

    Dear Pastor, I am a 35-year-old woman and I am writing to you because I am confused. I have one daughter. I got pregnant with her when I was 19. This was by a man who came to Jamaica to attend a convention of our church. From the time he saw me,... ...

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    I wish that I had more children

    Dear Pastor, A very peaceful day to you. I am a regular reader of your column and I listen to you on the radio almost every night. Sometimes I get upset when I can't hear you on the radio. My husband has been listening longer than me. Sometimes I... ...

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    The helper taught me how to make love

    Dear Pastor, When I was 16, I had my first sexual experience. It was with the helper my parents had employed to take care of the home. She was a woman in her 20s and one day she asked me if I had ever seen a 'big woman thing'. I asked her what... ...

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    Our uncle watches us like a hawk

    Dear Pastor, I am 18 years old and I am living with my parents, my three sisters and my uncle. My sisters and I get along very well. But my uncle is always watching us. He likes to carry news to our parents. Anytime he sees us talking to a guy he... ...

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    Boyfriend taking the baby naming too seriously

    Dear Pastor, I am having a problem. I did not think that at my age I would be having such a problem. I am 21 years old and recently went to live with my boyfriend. I got pregnant by this man by accident and it was truly an accident. He did not... ...

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    My man wants sex all the time

    Dear Pastor, I am a 29-year-old female and I grew up in a home with two brothers. My parents taught them to be gentle. They were not allowed to raise their voices at me and if they did, my parents, especially my mother, told them to apologise. My... ...

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    Husband’s son threatened me

    Dear Pastor, This is the first time I am writing to you, but I do need your help and advice. I am married and my husband is 42 years old. I am 31. My husband has a son, but we do not have children together. My husband and I used to get along well... ...

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    My boyfriend has no table manners

    Dear Pastor, I am a 15-year-old girl and I was invited to have dinner at my boyfriend's home. I was sitting at the table facing him, and during the dinner, my boyfriend stretched his legs and was playing with my private part. I stared at him, but... ...

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    Dad keeps soiled sheet as souvenir

    Dear Pastor, I am a 25-year-old girl and I am still a virgin. My mother told me that I should try to remain a virgin until I get married. She said that I should be able to prove to my husband that I am a virgin when we have sex for the first time... ...

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    Ghost blamed for me not getting pregnant

    Dear Pastor, I am writing to you for your advice. I have always read your column and I find it to be very interesting. I am a 28-year-old woman. I do not have children. My husband and I have been trying to get a child but nothing is happening. He... ...

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