My son has too many girlfriends

    Dear Pastor, I am living with my wife and two of my children. I have four children, but two are grown and have moved out. They were not totally old enough to move and go on their own. But they felt that they were mature enough to leave. I did not... ...

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    Co-worker is trying to steal my boyfriend

    Dear Pastor, I am from rural Jamaica, but I came to Kingston to work in a hairdressing parlour. I am 25. My best friend does this kind of work, so she encouraged me to learn it. After a while, I became very good at it. I got involved with a man... ...

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    Fiancée loves to boss me around

    Dear Pastor, The year is going by so fast; I could hardly believe that it is March already. I am planning to marry my fiancee this summer. We are hoping that everything will go smoothly. Our relatives are bearing the full cost of our wedding. My... ...

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    I have the worst luck with men

    Dear Pastor, When I was 19, I started a relationship with a 45-year-old-man who promised he would send me back to school. He had two children and I became their stepmother even though their biological mother lived nearby. As time went on, he... ...

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    Dad doesn’t want me to marry a dunce man

    Dear Pastor, I have always read your column, but this is the first time I am writing to you. I am 25 and the only child for my father. He did not marry my mother. He accused her of cheating on him, but I found out a couple of years ago that my... ...

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    Made love to my dead husband’s brother

    Dear Pastor, I am 50 and I have been married twice. My first husband is still alive, but my second husband died. I did not have children with my second husband, but I have two children with the first husband. My second husband has a brother who... ...

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    Boyfriend’s ex is working obeah on me

    Dear Pastor, I have decided to write to you about a problem. I have been going with a man for the past nine years. We do not have children together, but we started to have a relationship when I had five children for two different men. He has two... ...

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    I don’t want to get married again

    Dear Pastor, Years ago I met you at an outside broadcast and I was very impress by your frankness in answering the questions that people posed to you. I said to myself, this pastor man is different. So from that time, I have been listening to you... ...

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    I can’t get enough of my husband

    Dear Pastor I am 53 years old and I am living with my husband. He pays much attention to me, so when I started to feel different in myself, he told me I was going through menopause. I asked him how he knew that and he said, 'You are my wife, I... ...

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    I wish I could marry my cousin

    Dear Pastor, I am 21 years old and I read your column every day. When I was 16 years old, I had sex with my 20-year-old cousin. I always liked him. He was tall and of light complexion, like myself. We used to fool around a lot. One day he asked me... ...

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    This woman cheated two weeks before our wedding

    Dear Pastor, Four years ago, I got married to a girl who I thought I was in love with. Soon after the marriage, she advised me that she had missed her period. I asked her how could that happen so soon and she said we are doing things that will... ...

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    My wife only wants to do missionary in bed

    Dear Pastor, I am a Christian. I declare to you that I am a true Christian, but I was a bad boy on the street. When I say I was a bad boy, I mean I had many girls. They followed me because I sold ganja, so I always had money. I did not rob... ...

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    My ex-boyfriend trying to get me pregnant

    Dear Pastor, I am a 40-year-old woman. I am living with a man who does not eat meat, so I have to be cooking two pots because I have three children who are not his. He told me that I should stop cooking meat, but I told him that the children... ...

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    My church says we should be fruitful and multiply

    Dear Pastor, I have enjoyed reading your column over the years and now I would like to ask you some questions as I am contemplating getting married. I am 22 and attending a theological college. It is my dream to become a pastor. I am very active... ...

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    Ex-boyfriend wanted to try anal sex

    Dear Pastor, I am 22 years old and I find myself in love with a man who is 29. This man introduced me to his family. His sister, who is my age, questioned me as to why I had to get involved with her brother. I told her it is because I love him.... ...

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    Co-worker says that my wife is giving me ‘bun’

    Dear Pastor, I would like to hear your opinion. I am in my mid-30s and I have three children with a woman. We have been living together for five years. We both surrendered our lives to the Lord. We were encouraged to get married. We did so last... ...

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    My dad’s wife is jealous of how he treats me

    Dear Pastor, I am 23 and this is my first letter to you. I left Jamaica when I was 13 years old. I was living with my aunt and my mother. My father went to the United States of America (USA) before I was born. He said he would come back to... ...

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    My mother is making my life hell

    Dear Pastor, I need your help. I am a 37-year-old only child for my parents, but I was raised by my aunt and grandmother. However, when I was 17, I was sent to live with my parents. At that time they were married and living together. When I went... ...

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    Shocked to learn that my grandmother was a bad girl

    Dear Pastor, I am 17 and this is the first time I am writing to you, although I read your column all the time. I have a boyfriend. My mother knows him, but I cannot tell my father about him because from I was younger, my father told me that I... ...

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    Two sisters are fighting over me

    Dear Pastor, I am 24 years old and I am having a problem. I have found myself in love with two sisters who live together. Both of them love me and I have to admit that I love them too. Both of them have good jobs. Anything I ask them for, I get... ...

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